When dating, we try to find the perfect one for us. So much sometimes that even a slight flaw in our date’s character, leads us to be turned-off. But, be careful when setting your bar when it comes to dating. Of course, there’s nothing wrong with having to favour one quality over another in terms of finding your partner- we all do it! But, when choosing your awaited life-partner, consider giving them a break when they don’t meet all of your qualifications. Regardless if they aren’t a Hollywood superstar, a breakthrough artist or a famous basketball player, you should atleast give them a chance.
However, if you’ve considered yourself picky but is not sure yet, here are 5 signs that may prove that you really are.
Again, as said earlier, having too much qualifications for the single guy/girl of your dreams is a big no-no. But, always keep in mind that your top priority in your relationship is keeping each other happy and trusted. Wanting someone with a yacht should probably be at the bottom.
People tell you that you’re picky
Oftentimes, our friends tell us what to do and what not to do. They are also great when telling us how we can be so obnoxious at times. If you’re friends tell you that you’re picky, you probably are. Because, well, who doesn’t see you more than your friends, right.
It’s been a long time since your last date
If you aren’t picky and willing to see potential partners, you shouldn’t have a problem remembering the last time you had a date. Forgetting the last time you had a date may very well be the sign that you should get one as soon as you can.
You want the “perfect” relationship
Much like in the movies, you dream of seeing your prince charming in his white horse, hair being caressed by the wind while he approaches you with a flower and says “Mi lady.” Try to set realistic expectations when dating, that way, you’ll ATLEAST have the potential of having a date.
Looks is all that matters to you
Setting unrealistic expectations when dating also includes the idea that when you meet the “one,” you’d want them to look like Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt. We suggest to not judge according to looks, but also find someone you have a chemistry with.